Traveler Instinct

Why I Always Trust My Traveler Instinct

Derek Personal Stuff, Perspectives 68 Comments

Traveler Instinct
During the three days I spent in Istanbul earlier this month, something didn’t feel right.

Sure, I followed the general routine that I usually follow, and have enjoyed greatly, during my earlier travels to this city. I booked a private room at the friendly Cheers Hostel, I returned to my favorite eateries scattered around the back streets and lanes of a variety of neighborhoods, I smoked shisha at my favorite nargile cafe located in a beautiful 300-year old ex-school-turned-market situated behind a small cemetery, and I spent time each day admiring some of my favorite sights.

But on this occasion, as I did all of the above, I didn’t feel as comfortable as I have felt on those previous twelve or so visits. I couldn’t get in my travel groove for some reason and as a result, I wasn’t enjoying everything I was doing as much as usual.

It’s difficult to pinpoint what exactly was different about it all, but I can say for certain that I noticed something, and it bothered me, and to an extent, worried me too.

As I took my evening walks through very familiar areas, I found myself looking over my shoulder more often and choosing my path a lot more carefully than I normally do in that city, than I normally do anywhere in fact.

At one point, I even commented to another traveler I had met, as we walked through the park situated between the Blue Mosque and the Hagia Sofia, that the lack of a police presence in this most touristy section of this well-traveled city was bizarre considering how much of a target this area must be. This observation only added to the heavier-than-usual atmosphere I was feeling.

Everywhere I went, this city which I love very much and have so many incredible memories from, felt more and more unfamiliar with each passing hour.

Traveler Instinct - Istanbul

And as a result, after a short three days, my gut starting telling me, quite clearly, to get out of town.

Deciding to trust what I consider to be my well-honed traveler instinct, on my third night in Istanbul, I booked a flight to Bucharest for the very next morning. I woke up early, took the tram and metro to the airport and off I went to Romania, a short one hour flight away.

The next day, the attack happened in Sultanahmet. Ten tourists were killed, a mere 400 feet from where I was staying, at the exact spot that I had walked across far too many times to count during this three day visit alone.

Is The Traveler Instinct Real?

The idea of a traveler instinct is an interesting concept.

As someone on my FB page recently commented, this ‘instinct’ can sometimes be attributed to confirmation bias, where we have our preconceived notions about a particular destination and the people who live there, and as a result, we interpret all that we observe in a way that fits those already-held ideas.

While I agree with that to an extent, and I’m sure it’s sometimes the case, I don’t think it’s the full explanation.

I certainly had completely opposite ideas of what my time in Istanbul would be like on this occasion, based on all the overwhelmingly positive experiences I had in that city over the past ten years. From the moment I booked my flight to Turkey, I assumed that I was going to return to a place that always emitted a positive vibe (at least to me as a traveler) and that always gave me a positive travel experience.

One could also say that since I was looking for such a positive experience, anything that didn’t fit that mold could be seen as stranger and more negative than normal. Perhaps, but in my opinion, it’s unlikely considering that I’ve certainly learned by now that things don’t always go according to plan and I generally accept whatever comes my way without much disappointment.

Besides, this isn’t the first time I’ve noticed my traveler instinct.

Hagia Sofia, Istanbul

Catching a Pickpocket

I’ve now caught three people over the past five years who were trying to pickpocket me. The first time it happened, I was walking down a busy street in Mumbai and suddenly, I had a feeling that I should turn around. Sure enough, I caught a man with outstretched arm reaching for my back pocket where I happened to have left some money.

And it’s not as if I had been turning around every two minutes thinking that everyone around me might be trying to steal my stuff.

There was no indication that anything was happening except for a gut feeling at that very moment. Maybe I subconsciously saw his shadow, maybe I heard footsteps more closely than normal behind me, maybe I noticed a sudden crowd around me and realized the increase in risk that a pickpocket would operate in this area. I have no idea, but the point is, I felt something that made me turn around, and that feeling turned out to be right.

So there has to be more to it.

How We Develop A Traveler Instinct

The more we travel, the more experiences we have (obviously!), the more situations we find ourselves in, the more people we meet, the more we learn, the more we observe, the more we interpret. All of this then helps us make sense of the future experiences we have, the future situations we find ourselves in, the people we meet in our next destinations. We quickly scan our past experiences to see how these ‘new’ experiences compare and we make an assessment based on that information.

Of course, we are not usually aware of this process. We are only aware of the end result (the instinct) which tells us that a certain situation is normal, safe, unsafe, strange, or anything else, so that we can act accordingly. Suddenly we just know what to do, we make decisions on the fly based on our fine-tuned instincts.

This is especially true when we travel to the same destination more than once. The collection of data we have in our brains about how things are supposed to be in that particular location is obviously greater the more times we visit and the longer we stay, and that helps us interpret everything around us more quickly and, probably, more correctly.

This is what I felt in Istanbul, a city I know very well. I had so much previous experience to compare everything I was now seeing and feeling to that I was even more confident in what my gut was telling me. That’s why I left when I did.

Kurtulus, Istanbul

Who Needs Real Proof? Not Me.

Of course, maybe this is all nonsense in the end. Maybe there’s nothing to this traveler instinct idea at all.

Is it just luck?

It’s not as if I have much in terms of real proof.

It’s not as if I have a long list of tragedies or robberies or attacks that my own instinct has helped me narrowly avoid over the years. That’s not the case at all.

The reality is that it’s quite difficult to know exactly what this traveler instinct has done for me since I generally rely on it to make sure I don’t end up in trouble, not necessarily to help me get out of serious trouble. What it has helped me avoid is something that there is no way for me to be aware of.

But after all of this travel, I really do feel a traveler instinct within, one that seems to improve over time, and one that seems to be working quite well. By paying attention to this instinct as I’ve navigated the world over the past sixteen years, both myself and my possessions have remained remarkably safe in such a wide variety of destinations and situations.

And after this recent Istanbul experience, it would be difficult to convince me that it’s the result of something other than this traveler instinct.

Has your traveler instinct helped you at all? Do you believe this concept is real?

Since 1999 I've been traveling and living around the world nonstop. Sign up below for personal stories, real advice and useful updates from my adventures. Only good stuff, no nonsense.

Are you ready to earn money and travel?

How to Work on a Cruise Ship and Travel eBooksClick above and get started!

Comments 68

  1. Dani

    The morning of 9/11 I was sleeping over at a friend’s apartment who lived across from the Twin Towers (@Battery Park City) after a late night partying. At 5am, something told me to get up & leave so I caught a cab back to my own place in Brooklyn. Four hours later, the first plane hit. My friend was okay but went through a catastrophic event to secure safe passage on a boat to escape and her glass windows completely blown out of her living room where I had crashed on her futon. I may not have been a traveler after living in nyc several years but I will never understand what forced me up & out on that fateful day. So glad your instinct told you to leave Turkey that day. Take care, travel safe. And I really enjoy your blog.

  2. Rich

    Love reading this post Derek! I’m also a first time reader to your blog.

    I strongly agree with your “Traveling Instinct”. However, I’ve always referred to these unexplainable gut feelings, situations, happenings or phenomenons (as Andrew called them) in a different way.

    I’m a strong believer that when I have these feelings when they come—they come from the “Angels on my shoulders”.
    Now, some may call that crazy, and that’s okay. But a lot of my traveling expat friends I’ve met and family, strongly agree with me.

    I don’t call myself a devout religious man at all, by any means. But I do believe in God and all of his wonders in this beautiful world of ours. There is no doubt in my mind that there are strong energies that surround each and everyone of us. Some positive and some negative—”Vibes” if you will, that help guide and protect us through our lives and worldly journeys.

    In the past, like you Derek, I have experienced many of these extraordinary “Angel on my Shoulders” moments. They go back as far in to my childhood and even while I was serving in the military in Vietnam, and up through my most recent travels abroad.

    And I know that you and I and everyone that recognize and take notice to these extraordinary feelings, are truly blessed.

    Thanks for sharing this very interesting and enlightening blog post.

    1. Post
  3. Andrew

    Hi Derek. It’s an interesting post re instinct. I think it likely that there are two factors operating. One is, as you’d be aware, that we are processing a lot of external information with all our senses, and the brain filters out what is considered extraneous to the situation. We are then alerted to stimuli we should focus on, if it’s important to us, such as threat. The other one, I think is more intriguing. Eric Berne, the psychiatrist that came up with the therapy Transactional Analysis, was apparently investigating what he termed psychic receptors, not long before he died. Conspiracy theorists could have fun with that! The upshot of it is, as I understand it, that he believed that through these receptors, we pick up a range of information unavailable to our other senses. Various areas of research tentatively support the concept, such as energy field matrices that have been investigated by quantum physicists (Lynn McTaggart’s book The Field, documents some of these experiments [not a recent book, unfortunately]). A clinical psychologist in Australia wrote her doctorate thesis based on investigating clinical psychologists that can physically pick up ‘energy’ related to client trauma. Apparently there are quite a few that can do this, but keep it quiet, for obvious reasons. I trained in a form of bodywork psychotherapy where the same energetic manifestations can be strongly felt physically by the therapist (and by some clients also). Whilst it all can sound a bit ‘woo woo’, I suspect that the reality is that science just hasn’t caught up with with being able to measure the phenomenon. After all, at a basic molecular level, we are all just energy. So, I think there is a reasonable physical/psyche basis for what you and others have experienced.

  4. Jane Clements

    Yes! We must learn to trust our instincts. I have been travelling solo for more than 3 years now and as a result I am very keen to hone my skills. Things occasionally go wrong but when I analyse why, 9 times out of 10 I realised that I had ignored a nagging gut instinct to get myself out of a situation. I now remove myself from a situation when I feel this – as you did when you flew to Romania. As a result I also find that I am listening to my instinct a lot more in all aspects of my life

  5. Pingback: Advice for Your First Solo Trip » Brittany from Boston

  6. Hayley

    Hi “Earl!” This is my first time landing on your blog. As an avid traveller myself, I am totally with you on the instinct idea. I’ve had at least 5 experiences in my time where something simply did not feel right, and it was confirmed to me later just why.

    Call it instinct, call it “travellers instinct”… when you’re fully present in the moment as it’s easy to do when you are travelling or moving, your senses are heightened. I always say to my girlfriends when they are going somewhere, “If it feels unsafe, it probably is. Just leave and don;t worry about why. ”

    Thanks for sharing!

  7. Izy berry

    Omg thanks God you were not their I don’t believe in instincts but I really believe that God sometimes tell us things and maybe your instinct was god talking to you and telling you that you need to live that place

  8. Jon Espina - JontotheWorld

    A traveler somehow feels this traveler instinct that we have.

    But it just amazed me at how you were able to explain in a logical way. Been reading your blog for a while and really enjoyed reading your travel experiences.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *